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The Art of the Wedding Music Consultation: Making the Most of Your DJ Meeting

Writer's picture: Celia RoseCelia Rose

Your DJ consultation is more than just picking songs - it's about creating the perfect musical atmosphere for your special day. Here's our guide to making the most of this important planning session.


Before the Meeting:

Prepare these key items:

  • A rough timeline of your wedding day

  • Any must-play songs that are special to you

  • Songs or genres you definitely don't want played

  • Special moments you want to highlight

  • Cultural or family traditions to incorporate


Questions to Ask Your DJ

  1. Experience and Expertise

  2. How many weddings have you DJ'd in the past year?

  3. Are you familiar with our venue?

  4. What's your backup plan if equipment fails?

  5. Music and Performance

  6. How do you handle song requests?

  7. How do you read the crowd and adjust the playlist?

  8. What's your approach to announcements and MCing?

  9. Technical Details

  10. What equipment do you provide?

  11. Do you need any specific setup from the venue?

  12. Do you have backup equipment?


Communicating Your Vision

Be clear about:

  • The overall vibe you want (elegant, party atmosphere, intimate, etc.)

  • Any specific genres you love or hate

  • Special moments that need musical attention

  • Volume preferences for different parts of the reception


Red Flags to Watch For

Be cautious if your DJ:

  • Seems inflexible about song choices

  • Can't provide references

  • Doesn't ask questions about your preferences

  • Is vague about equipment or backup plans


Creating Your Song Lists

Tips for must-play songs:

  • Keep the list reasonable (15-20 songs maximum)

  • Include songs for specific moments (first dance, parent dances, etc.)

  • Consider your guests' preferences


Tips for do-not-play songs:

  • Include specific songs you strongly dislike

  • List any genres you want to avoid

  • Mention any songs that might be emotionally triggering


Remember, a great DJ will:

  • Listen more than they talk

  • Ask thoughtful questions about your vision

  • Offer suggestions based on experience

  • Be flexible and accommodating

  • Show enthusiasm for your ideas


As your Columbia and St. Louis wedding DJs, we're committed to making your consultation productive and enjoyable. We'll work together to create the perfect soundtrack for your special day, ensuring every musical moment reflects your style and keeps your guests entertained.


The consultation is your opportunity to ensure your wedding music is exactly what you've dreamed of. Come prepared, ask questions, and don't be afraid to share your vision. Together, we'll create a memorable celebration that hits all the right notes.

 
 
 

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